My last post got a far more positive response than I had initially expected. So, here is a little follow up where I outline my personal style of game which I have created for myself. Also this flies in the face of a lot of what I have read here... just my style. Also I don't do hookups so this may not be for everyone.

1. Start a conversation This can be about literally anything, for example you could say "hey I like your..." or "Hi, what's your name? I'm... can I get your opinion on something?" or "do you want to play a game?"

2. Be self aware Personally I usually look at my watch and say "it'll only take a minute, indulge me... please?" with a broad smile and make solid eye contact. So many guys want a chance with a chick to try and get her to lower her guard (or her "bitch shield" a disgusting term in my opinion, you both know what your end game is). So, instead of trying all kinds of shit to get past it just try asking nicely and sincerely. I promise it works, she will appreciate it.

3. Be direct, shoot straight Most of the girls I speak to describe me as direct or forward, and usually add that they like that or "it's not a bad thing." Don't try to trick or bullshit her - she will see through it. A decent follow up is explaining your rationale for being straight forward. I like to say that "... yeah it can't be fun having guys constantly try to get in your pants haha, I think most people appreciate someone who is just being straightforward to cut through the bullshit." Most girls find this refreshing.

4. Be dignified People worry about "shit tests" very rarely will a girl give you a shit test if you behave as described above, if you don't feed her bullshit she won't give you shit right back, and if she does respond the way you would if you best friend did that to you. If she is being a bitch then walk away, you don't need that.

5. Treat girls like human beings just enjoy the interaction She is not a "set" she is not a "target" she is not a "HB8" she is a fucking human being. If she says she has a boyfriend that is ok, if she says she is not interested that is ok. Be a gentleman, if she does that tell her something like "well I will admit that is a little disappointing, none the less would you still like to play the game?" or "that's a shame but if it wouldn't make you uncomfortable would you still be willing to have a chat anyway?" Some girls apologize to me and say "sorry I have a boyfriend" and I usually reply "Please, don't ever apologize to me - you have a right to say no." Then continue talking it is practice and conversation is nice, she may also have single friends ;)

6. Listen to her Ask her how her day was I like to say "... imagine I am your best friend" when she talks ask her about details and have a conversation. listen to her make a point of remembering details - they will help you if you see her again. You would not believe how much remembering that she doesn't drink alcohol or that she is sad about some event in her life will make you stand out from other guys. Throughout insert your own opinions whether or not you think she will agree.

7. If all of the above goes well Then ask her out - like a fucking gentleman. I would say for example "hey you seem pretty great we should hang out sometime, no?" then if she says yes "awesome, so what would you do on your ideal first date?" then actually take ten minutes to plan out a first date you would both enjoy. At some point get her number and finish with "well name it was a pleasure meeting you and I am looking forward to seeing you again."

Again this isn't really geared towards just trying to hookup with a girl. Remember some people will tell you that you must be alpha and you must not be a "nice guy" or some such shit - confidence does not equal dominance.

Leave me your thoughts in the comments below.