I have the intention. That intention is to love women and that's all that matters. I know I'm supposed to care about other things. My career (I will work though). Who I am. What I want from life. The problem is I just can't see any point in who I am. I think I love myself and I think my self esteem is fine. I don't think I'm a push over, I have self respect. I just for whatever reason get my fix from making other people (women) feel good...at least that's my desire, but I lack the encyclopedic knowledge of psychology to optimally carry out this goal. In the past, I would vegetate. I'd sit and listen, but I would never act, all the while wanting to do something, but not knowing what that is. Loving women, is very loaded and lofty, and perhaps a bit presumptuous, maybe even insulting in a way. After all, they're all individuals. I don't want to view them as toys. This has stopped me from acting in the past. My question is more hypothetical. Is there really a science to this?