Almost every girl I approach has a boyfriend and I don't know how to change it.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-05-16T02:06:39+00:00

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Almost every girl I approach has a boyfriend and I don't know how to change it.

You might be winning the lottery here, because those are some ridiculous odds you're encountering.

More likely though, is that your way of interacting with them is awkward and their response is to lie about having a boyfriend because some guys are inappropriately and awkwardly aggressive when they are directly rejected.

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I’m being myself.

This doesn't really tell us anything.

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I’m pretty good at getting numbers and approaching, but nothing ever comes out of it.

Then, in reality, something is actually not good here. Obviously.

What do your approach and opening actually look like? What do you typically say? How do you open?
What kinds of things do you typically talk about? How do you come up with things to talk about?
How are you deciding when to number close?

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I can never seem to tell who is single and who isn't.

You're not supposed to. No one really knows until they interact with another person first. Then the other one will say something or give off tells. But the interaction has to happen first.

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I know guys out there worse than me who still get laid or get gfs without much effort.....They even laughed when hearing about this sub.

That's because, honestly, "seduction" isn't really that difficult. The one thing most guys who come here have in common (and I'm including Me from the Past in this statement), is that we are all great at getting in our own way and fucking ourselves out of sex and dating.

The bulk of "game" is mostly us getting out of our own way. Confidence ups the chances that you won't fuck yourself up and empathy/reading people allows you to know when there's an opportunity. And a lot of things can block these two things from working right.

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....don't know how to seal the deal with them fast. School is also ending soon, so that's a factor.

No. You have to drop this expectation. Your attitude is already getting in the way but if you're trying to rush something to happen before school ends, then you're going to be even MORE liable to get in your own way.

Title	Almost every girl I approach has a boyfriend and I don't know how to change it.
Author	noluckwiththegirls
Upvotes	2
Comments	1
Date	May 16, 2018 1:16 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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