How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?

SyrusDrake · 2018-05-12T21:59:47+00:00

I made an almost identical post myself a few months ago. And this is the second or third one I've read since then. At this point I've come to the conclusion that life simply isn't fair.

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-05-12T23:26:46+00:00

Just being a relaxed confident dude. I'm short, I figure I'm average looking but frankly I don't really have much of a problem talking to women and seem to attract girls way out of what I would consider "my league".

I don't neg, use PUA tactics or read Mystery Method. I just talk to girls without being terrified of them.

traceviral · 2018-05-12T20:19:34+00:00

i mean i'd be in that category because i met a girl. the thing is after that girl left, i wasn't getting laid anymore. I think those guys are possibly in the same situation where they met a girl and if she left they'd be like you.

judahman8 · 2018-05-12T22:09:33+00:00

Start with not trying to make it seem like a formal date. I'll invite a girl to go grocery shopping with me. Then while there I'll offer to cook for her for keeping me company. Then I'll get some beer or wine or cocktail ingredients, her choice. Then ill plant stuff like you havnt seen so and so!? we have to watch it.

Other ideas for good first "dates" if its just you two are the park. Walk around then get some food then get some drinks then go back to ur place to smoke or something. You want to go to multiple location. 3 minimum.

I invite girls to stuff Im going to do regardless of if they come or not. Hey I'm going to dave and busters with a couple of buddies because Im in the mood for arcade games. You should come with so I can whoop you up in mario cart. Use the question game if you are in a strict one on one setting. Look it up.

Fun is the key. Dinner and a movie is not fun. Bowling and a bar is fun. Its pretty easy really. Also make sure you are esculating kino. You should be tryingbto get laid the first date. It doesn't mattwr if you don't but try to. Aim high and fall at making out.

If you don't at least kiss her than u are in the danger zone. Unless you go out again the very next day you probably wont crawl out of the danger zone because if you had enough game to do that you wouldn't be in that position to begin with.

b0100010 · 2018-05-12T21:27:52+00:00

Because they've gotten good at it, and you only see the success and not the work they had to put in.

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2018-05-12T22:57:22+00:00

Pre-self improvement I had 2 or 3 ltr with girls, and I got with them with very little effort and not knowing what I was doing. In fact I probably did the opposite of what is recommended on here, and certainly wouldn't have been classed as an attractive guy.

I reckon it's down to pure and simple luck. Right place, right time, right girl. Thing with seduction, improvement and game is that it supposedly gives you an advantage when meeting women and the ability to influence how an interaction is going to go. Basically giving you more chances than the guys described in OP's post.

TalulaRouge · 2018-05-13T01:23:41+00:00

It depends, doesn't it?

One of the things I've noticed is that, in both human behavior and in nature, both people and forces "follow the path of least resistance." So if there's someone your similar age and availability next door to you, and you have similar standards, you'll likely happily get laid, because it took the least amount of effort on your part and hers. Some people are very happy this way.

While I don't necessarily think seduction method is as important as some think, what it does do is give a person more potential to attract more varied and desirable partners by casting a wider net. Even by attempting to do any of these things, what you're saying is that you care enough about both yourself and your future partners to explore and make effort, and do hard work. When I enter into romance, seduction, I want each time to be a shake-the-house-from-the-rafters experience, and I know when my partners are making an effort, that they're looking for the same. These are attractive qualities.

Mr. Smoke-Weed-PlayStation is following the path of least resistance. Simply because he manages to attract some, does not necessarily make those seductions worthwhile experiences. I'd rather be alone, than be with a lover of minimal effort.

thefluffyplum · 2018-05-12T21:23:25+00:00

Personally I fall for a lot of really average looking guys, and if you ask my friends they would say they're downright ugly. It's more about being good at conversation and generally making me have a good time. I do this everytime I hang out with someone, pay attention to them so as to give them what I expect back. It isn't so much about money or muslces(really..?) as being kind or generous. Having a good and easy posture speaks volumes. But if you're looking for someone to just sleep with you and you're not much of a looker, it helps to make her laugh. A lot. Find out what she likes. Ask more questions than you answer and just show her a good time. Actually dressing well helps too. Don't forget confidence. She's usually just as nervous.

NairbHna · 2018-05-13T01:57:40+00:00

You can be skinny and make it work, you can be poor and make it work. you can approach once a day and make it work.

YwUt_83RJF · 2018-05-12T23:02:59+00:00

Have you tried any of the things you have read about here? If you don't know why things work for them and not for you then you really ought to consider a different approach, if only to change things up.

Trowawaycausebanned4 · 2018-05-13T02:09:24+00:00

That's why we're here, because we struggle with it

wawakaka · 2018-05-12T20:04:49+00:00

Some women actually love sex and you don't have to lie to them or buy them

Find those women

Title	How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?
Author	noluckwiththegirls
Upvotes	11
Comments	19
Date	May 12, 2018 7:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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