U.K.) girl on tinder wants to meet me but am I uglier and different than on my tinder pic?

ResidentCut · 2018-05-23T09:37:22+00:00

She'd have got married and had kids by now. You've been asking this for like a decade lol

Bbsbdhdhdjdkp · 2018-05-23T10:05:00+00:00

Gonna copy and paste my comment from your other post.

Mate those pics are fucking awful. May as well be honest. You look like you’ve 0 confidence and look horrendously uncomfortable in them. They all seem to be zoomed in, from the same angle and you’re wearing the same sort of clothes (Dark, baggy etc).

First off, we need to get the clothes sorted. Go to Burton or River Island or something, grab a couple of tees, shirts, jeans etc and try them on. Make them clothes that you’ve never considered wearing before. You’ve black hair, a nice deep blue would probably suit you imo. Try on blues, greens, pinks, greys, whites. Try everything, avoid black. Makes you look like you’re depressed af. (BTW if you are depressed af, message me privately, always happy to chat).

As always, hit the gym, improve the diet. Even just the confidence you get will improve your success with women. That takes time though, but needs consistency.

Right, so next, the haircut. It’s ok, but think about changing it. From my experience, a different haircut was a way for me to become a fresh person in a way. Find a hairstyle you’d like to try on insta/Pinterest/whatever. Go to a good barbers, even if you have to spend a bit of coin. Worst comes to worst and you don’t like it, you’re out 30 quid and 3 weeks. Ah well.

Then, the tinder stuff. There’s profile reviews on /r/tinder every week. Get yours in and see what they say. You need new photos without a doubt. We’ve some absolutely cracking weather. Get down to the park/beach/canal or whatever. Nice tee or shirt that isn’t black and get someone to take a photo. Sure it might be awkward, but it’s 30 seconds. Better than standing about feeling like a dick for half an hour. Just get it done.

Next up is your approach on tinder but I’ll leave that to the guys on /r/tinder. Note there was an article released recently (on mobile or I’d link) where it found people on tinder we’re having as much casual sex as those not on it. So go out to bars/clubs. Don’t think about going out to pull. Go out to have fun. Guys enjoying themselves without chasing sex is sexy. It shows they’re independent and don’t rely on chasing a shag to have fun. Don’t ask, just go out, have a few drinks and have fun. Fuck bitches to fuck bitches.

Any other questions message me mate. I’ll help in anyway I can.

Look, just go out and see what happens. If she rejects you, she rejects you. Corny but you gotta love yourself before anyone is gonna fuck you.

Title	U.K.) girl on tinder wants to meet me but am I uglier and different than on my tinder pic?
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Date	May 23, 2018 9:23 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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