Hey all! Hoping for some brutal truth to get my head out of the gutter. Long and the short of the story is that I got myself involved in a girl who has me in a weird limbo of friendzone/ltr. Right now I am in a state of limbo on what I Want to do. On one hand I really do care about this person, on the other, I am very charismatic, energetic, outgoing, I have a huge social circle, Very fitness oriented (lifting running climbing mtb) So even though I am a little bigger I do get hit on pretty frequently and I have no issues getting girls numbers. so I have 2 questions. How to overcome the emotional shit that comes with wanting to be with someone. And How (because I still want to work on my game) to distance myself from this girl just enough to regain my frame and peak her interest.

Brutal honesty preferred, tell me to man the fuck up and deal. (ideally with some suggestions)

Edit: It is worth noting that I am new to TRP have read most if not all of the sidebar including the etext. I am just having issue with how to apply it.