7 Mindsets That Will Make You Attractive

funkyferretfun · 2018-06-18T21:54:47+00:00

Summary. Below is a quick breakdown for those who don't have time to watch.

Mindset 7. Everything will be fine.

This makes you more comfortable with people, more relaxing.

Mindset 6. No need to prove yourself.

Attraction is not a result of effort, too much of it is a turn off. Throwing out game can be needy. How can she prove herself to me? Never a good reason to convince a woman of your value.

Mindset 5. What emotional value can I give?

Project a cool, fun vibe. Good conversation. Nonjudgmental attitude that lets people be themselves around you. Trading emotions or comments for drinks is not giving, it’s just not as attractive. Girls see through this trading and lose respect and attraction. Give genuine compliments. Ask names and use them. Make people laugh. Lead people on experiences. Play games like “fuck marry kill” or have a game of thumb wrestling.

Mindset 4. Each interaction is an investment in myself.

Each interaction is the investment you are making in yourself, building up your reputation, your social circle, etc. Have a long-term perspective. Focus only on what is directly in your control. Girls will then pursue you for sex since you are not trying to get something then and there.

Mindset 3. I say whatever the fuck I want.

Guys have thoughts and opinions that they filter. Awkward silence follows. Let your thoughts flow from your mind naturally. Gets everyone more comfortable, and women will love you for being you. Don’t be a timid little sheep. Own your thoughts and share them aloud.

Mindset 2. There’s nothing that I need from anyone.

Basic needs are water, shelter, food. You don’t need anything else. Know that wanting and needing are different, you want a girl but don’t need her. She isn’t a necessity. Communicate yourself as you are and have a willingness to walk away.

Mindset 1. Let me see if she’s worth my time.

Guys that crush it with women know most people aren’t worth their time because life is short and time is valuable. This is the screening frame. Get her to impress you.

Wrap up.

This set of mind frames creates better results, and you will do her a favor by using them. This is because girls love the idea of seducing a guy out of her league. Girls don’t like guys who throw themselves at them.

Title	7 Mindsets That Will Make You Attractive
Author	The_24-7_Gentleman
Upvotes	2
Comments	1
Date	June 5, 2018 1:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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