International long distance fiancé (33 F) and I (44 M) of 2.5 years fading apart. Need to reboot. Need sage community input on this one.

Westernleaning · 2018-06-13T09:50:39+00:00

Sounds like she’s got some serious issues. I’m a strong believer in one not being able to “fix” people, that they need to fix themselves. And on that note if someone can’t take care of themselves they can’t be with someone else.

It’s funny you used be word “mania” in there. That’s a word that’s strongly associated with mental illness. Anyway, beyond that it sounds like you’ve got it together and your fiancé is out traveling g and having a good time and doesn’t really do anything with herself. I’d drop her and find someone more compatible and closer to you distance wise.

WIA20XX · 2018-06-13T11:45:56+00:00

You already know what your strongest move is, break up. And I wouldn't do the breakup with closure. I mean you should ghost.

If the chick doesn't realize that she needs you, misses you - there is no relationship.

Right now, she doesn't need you.

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