Recently I have come across a dilema I start my relationships as an alpha male or at least the perception I have as an alpha male I let her know I am with other girls let her know I don't care about what she thinks of me and I am not going to change just because she is not happy with the way I am the relationships start really well she is into me always making plans to see me and she is always all over me and she begs me to bang her but after awhile when I think she deserves more ,I try to make her comfortable and let her know I am into her try to come up with a solution for her problems.. However as soon as I try to offer her some comfort she looses interest into me she is not available anymore and eventually ghosts me it is a dilema for me,should I not offer her comfort at all or should I not start like this any thoughts are appreciared