Hey, Fellas

Done, some readin, some liftin, and working on gettin my money up and I'm finally seeing progress with the ladies. (Guess shedding that excess fat and investing in myself is starting to pay the dividends!). Anyways, I think I've become a Chad? Well more like the ladies are starting to think and see me as a Chad and it's kinda shutting down my vibes. Any advice guys?

Some Details:

I'm tuned into maximizing my potential because fuck playing it safe and tryna land in the middle class mentality. (To each their own but that's how I think, and I'm not really afraid to express it). However, this makes me seem arrogant in front of some girls and I guess that's not really attractive? Should I either dial that back for later or try to find girls more befitting my vibe?