Day 29 of 50

Hey guys. Today’s post is gonna be a bit different because I didn’t go out and approach 2 random women. However; what I did do was go clubbing on my own and get into hijinks with people of both genders. Loosely put, I didn’t have anyone to go out with tonight but didn’t fancy spending the night in so I went to the Dog Star in Brixton for some solo partying. Now I know the concept of going out alone is something that terrifies most of you but honestly it’s not a big deal. I think people get scared at the idea of walking around a club with no friends and looking like a reject but any time I’ve been out on my own it’s never taken me longer than 30 minutes to meet guys and gals that I end up spending the night with. I think it’s all about just letting go and having fun really.

That’s what I usually do, that’s what I did last night, and people seem to gravitate towards it. I’m just there letting loose on the dance floor and before long some human has ended up dancing with me and introducing me to their friends. In any event, by the time I was in the queue I was having bants with a group of mates who were out for a birthday party and once I got inside I was adopted by a large group from Croydon and cutting shapes with them into the early hours of the morning.

You probably want some specific feedback on my interactions with women but I spoke to so many that I’m not sure where to start. I do remember that I told one girl that she had a fantastic ass (understatement of the century) and ended up talking to her for a while before taking her number as she left. We were just staring deep into each other’s eyes as we spoke. Pretty hot stuff if I’m gonna be totally honest.

Other than that, there were 3 separate interactions with women that made me smile. The first was when I walked to the bar to get a drink and this girl just turned around, smiled at me in a really deep way and said ‘You’ve got a lovely energy. Not many people have, but you do.’

The second was when I was dancing with the group from Croydon. One of the girls took me to one side and said ‘You’re a beautiful person, both inside and out; and you really need to know that.’

The final one was at the end of the night when I was waiting for my coat. This girl comes up to me from behind and starts resting her head on my shoulder. I teased her about using me as a pillow and somehow we ended up stood there in the queue hugging silently for about 5 minutes. At the end of it, she looked me in the eye and said ‘You’re an amazing person and one day you’re going to meet a woman who really deserves you.’ I thought about that all the way home.

Thoughts

I wasn’t really on the pull tonight per se, just having fun and meeting people, and as well as girls I got on great with a couple of the lads from the Croydon posse (big up Croydon) so it looks like I’ll be partying with them again in future.

29 days down, 21 to go

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