The best way to show her you're willing to walk away?

WIA20XX · 2018-07-10T23:52:19+00:00

1) social media designed to appeal to women, specifically fear of missing out.

2) add chicks.

3) "let's go out Friday." She doesn't get back to you.

4) Go out Friday, have a ball, ideally with cuter chick. Have a blast. Document it on social media.

5) You always win when you have fun without her. And how she sees it, without you

Back in the day, there was no social media, so you had to have fun with no witnesses.

operationalbroom · 2018-07-11T02:16:07+00:00

you gotta let her go for now man, just do your own thing. like that other guy said, social media like snap, that shows you having a good time, is a good way to get her interested again.

once you feel like she’s viewing your stuff a lot, hit her up, or even snap her to gauge her interest. then just say she should come out this weekend or whatever

diego2134 · 2018-07-11T07:42:11+00:00

Seems like shes trying to do her own shit. I say go with option 3 and make sure to document stuff on social media where she can see it. Show everybody that you're gonna be fine, and that you can and will have fun with or without her. Dont let you mood and fun be solely dependent on her. If the need arises dont be afraid to let her go and don't* just do the thing where you stay silent and avoid eachother. If you've been doing that then think about if this is all worth it, and if shes right for you.

2018-07-11T14:56:08+00:00

Why show her you can walk away when you can just walk away. You're trying to bluff

I think if you want her in your life you should probably be very clear with her very quickly, not try to control her to keep her around

The message depends on how intimate you have been. Judging by what you have described, ask if everything is going okay with her first. Say you thought you were having fun together and feel like there's a distance/you're growing apart and you wanted to know if it's something you said. Something like this, keep it real

King_Louie_ · 2018-07-11T14:57:08+00:00

Man..that option three was an old post. Glad you revived it cause it’s a good line. I have a question to the community.

Same senecio as above with the following caveat: you’ve talked about it and she’s already admitted to always being slow to text back everybody she knows as she’s not much of a texter...like sometimes she goes a day or so without texting, then will text me and we have a couple hours where she’s real attentive texting back, then the next day she’s quiet again. I will usually refrain from texting her for a day or two then I’ll throw something light her way and we’ll go back and forth for a little while before she’s quiet again, but sometimes she’s slow to reply anyway. I’m thinking that option three line is still a valid response, but it would seem a tad unfair if we’ve talked about it and I know she is slow to text already... then again...she may need to hear that line to learn a lesson. Thoughts?

Also...she hasn’t had any real presence on social media for about a year.

tallrasputin · 2018-07-11T15:35:30+00:00

I did #3 on Sunday, hung out with the girl last night and made out for a bit. It was a later meeting and it’s a work-night for both of us so it will go further next time.

I think it’s all situational but all options you listed seem like fair options to me.

Title	The best way to show her you're willing to walk away?
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Date	July 10, 2018 11:36 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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