I can’t seem to find any real luck with women as of late. I took a year off to focus on self improvement and did so fairly successful. The issue is I’m now back to square one. About a year ago I would be actively talking to several girls at a time without issue but now I struggle to even find girls to speak to. I don’t know if it’s my age (21M) or what holding me back. I don’t think by any means my body is the issue, seeing as I am very invested into competitive bodybuilding (classic physique) and I pretty much spend my life at the gym (I’m a personal trainer as well), averaging 12-15 hours there a day. I’ve tried tinder due to my lack of free time and by all means I get a fair amount (30-35) fairly attractive matches within the first hour but I cannot for the life of me keep a conversation alive. I either open and they don’t respond or it’s about 2 lines back and forth before I get r bombed. I’m really not a confident guy but I’ve grown used to faking it till I make it. What can I do to see some success? I honestly had an easier time when I was skinnier and paler (not to mention awkward) than I do as a college graduate with muscle and darker skin. If I get laid once every 3 months I consider that a success while lower SMV friends of mine are pulling without effort. Any advice or direction would be greatly appreciated.
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