I returned to dating back in September and I've been aggressively setting up dates since primarily using Tinder but occasionally through Instagram. I'm currently working 70 hours a week so this is my only avenue.

I've gone on 16 first dates since September 1st. I'm 28 and dating women 24-29 typically. Most of them I lose interest in and don't ask out again, however I've received some very strange feedback from some that I ask out a second time.

I've received 6 texts from women I've gone out with that are surprised I am asking them out on a second date because they feel I wasn't interested in them and didn't seem to ask them many questions about their lives. I personally feel that is all I'm doing on dates. I can't see this being a coincidence as this has been exclusively the answer I've received.

I've spoken to a few buddies about this and they suggest I be pickier with who I take out and select more interesting women, but I'm finding that to be extremely difficult to come across. Any feedback / questions are greatly appreciated.