So, I (27yo )got a LTR, now 1,5 months. Good girl. 21yo, shy, Low partner count (1 or 2 afaik before me), not a party slut (she does not go clubbing), does not drink etc etc. Unicorn.

She is gorgeous but has some quirks i did not experienced with other girls.

For example she does not really do girly stuff, like go to a hairdresser. She cuts her hair herself (I thought the hairs are like the most important thing for girls), barely goes shopping, she does not have a TV, reads very much etc. (Sounds awesome, right!?)

That's all okay on my part. But one thing that bothers the fuck out of me is that she is kind of unsocial. I don't mean she is mean to other persons. But she does not talk, is very introverted (not depressed). She does not text, i NEVER heard her ask how my day was going or something. If this was a plate I would not even bother posting this, but all my other LTRs were very different. There was mutual interest, texting, flirting over phone. This kind of stuff.

I know she is into me (met the parents and all of that), and everytime we are together, everything is going great. And tbh, the time spent together, mostly fucking, is the most important time. But still, it bothers me that nothing comes from her. No "Hey, come over" or "Should we meet up?" It's always me, and this sucks and is not the way my LTRs usually go. Don't get me wrong but she has to fucking work more if she wants to keep me as her bf.

So, did someone experienced something similar? How did you manage it? I will try dread game in the next days, hope this works.

On a sidenote another question:

Did you ask your LTR about her past relationships? I did not ask her, but know that she had a BB-Bf before me. She is very inexperienced in bed (did not even know what a cumshot was for example), that's why i guess she has a low partner-count.

Edit: a word