How I messed up.

DbzRoshi · 2018-07-17T01:59:11+00:00

Not all women are like this. I believe you should pay attention to the similar personalities and places of where you pick these women up.

I always find it interesting that people tend to run into the same type of people and not notice that they 'attract' them; and then are completely lost why they can't meet someone different.

Maybe there is a quality you like that they all have and you haven't noticed that it could be a red flag. Maybe you don't notice the good girl, the cute and innocent girl that is actually good because you're always looking at the risk takers and sassy ones (more likely to act the way you are describing) or the more aggressive women.

I think you should change the place(s) of where you meet these women and also be a little more open minded to girls you might not have noticed the 1st time.

Just a thought but I hope it helps!

Endoss · 2018-07-17T04:08:07+00:00

Bro, it's all about screening for women who have qualities you want. Maybe some self reflection is in order - If you're attracting these types of women, it's because you're putting out signals that these women respond to.

Joey_Da-Dong · 2018-07-17T01:59:59+00:00

Jesus Christ

SmartSoda · 2018-07-17T07:17:26+00:00

First of all, your view of women is so low because your bar is low, while your expectations are still high. Women aren't a category, but people. There are shitty people and good people and average people.

The higher the bar the higher women rise to meet your standards; therefore you are the standard. The rest of it needs to come from what you see yourself as, not how you feel. Are you able to live up to your own expectations? If so, why settle? If you're just in it to sleep with women and the standard is attractiveness then don't expect good people, expect sex. If you don't settle, you quickly realize that it's actual effort to get a girl with values and she won't ever be perfect.

Xanarxses · 2018-07-17T12:21:24+00:00

You said yourself. It's a third of women. 9 out of 28.

While the guys may be correct in that there may be something wrong with what you look for and what you signal to women in general.

At the end of the day the truth is that you'll never be sure of whether a girl will or not cheat on you. Just gotta have faith in her and faith in your judgment. And truth be told, there is always going to be a dude who is manlier, more confident, more charismatic, smarter and on and on than anyone out there. There are people who will always be able to smoke more hash than me.

It depends on her, because if she's a catch. Certainly there are dudes out there who could be "worthy". Some women will admit their attraction but won't break their "allegiance". Others ride whatever's the best current offer. Those girls who cheated on their boyfriends with you, I'm sure you know you're probably one of many many many many dudes who've fucked them.

I'd say keep your cool. You just experienced some serious Grade A whores(and some dudes will still defend women like that). Be happy you were the one fucking and not the one getting fucked.

bumfuckloser · 2018-07-17T05:37:34+00:00

You’re good at attracting women, yea. But these women share this similar pattern. In a sense, you can only confirm you’re good at attracting shitty women who are only worth plating and not committing to. You have to change something on how you approach meeting women.

IKILLYOUGI · 2018-07-17T06:16:02+00:00

i see why you attract these type of women

Rkso · 2018-07-17T06:56:12+00:00

Probably I know a lady with 3 kids by 3 different guys

2018-07-17T10:07:19+00:00

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Title	How I messed up.
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Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	July 17, 2018 1:13 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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