So I have minimal problems attracting HB6 or HB7s on dates (from online dating apps) but I don’t have any interest in reciprocating their efforts. I land a date with an HB8 or HB9 or 10 even from time to time but it never goes anywhere. I don’t understand why this happens. Conversations always seem dull but I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong. I mostly go into general topics like school, music, hobbies, etc. Its the same boring questions date after date and leads to nothing. Some kino here and there but if don’t sense strong IOI’s then I don’t escalate kino past simple touches after a joke etc. And I rarely even get a kiss close (which to me shows a lack of interest on her part) Any advice on conversation and escalation on first dates?