So I'm really good at meeting and making out with women at bars. On any given Friday/Saturday I can pretty easily find a girl at a bar, make a solid connection, end up dancing, making out, etc. but am not great at getting them back to my place.

As such I usually end up resolving to get their number and try to meet a second time. It's worked out for me a couple times but usually not, often times I'm just ghosted. May just be overthinking it but sometimes I think it's cause I text them back too soon after meeting them and that seems needy. What do y'all usually do in this situation? I know you're only supposed to text to establish the next meeting but where do you balance showing interest with not seeming too needy? Should I always wait for her to make the next move? I feel like that only happens with the girls that I'm not super interested in, maybe just cause they're less attractive?