So as I've gotten over stuff such as social anxiety and other things of that nature. Which has led me to approach strangers to make friends and school and talk to random women, I still am not invited to anything most of the time. Adding to this, I am 99% of the time the initiator for anything, from friends to asking women out (the latter I get as a norm, but with friends it's exhausting to never be invited).

Once in a while I'll get a message from a friend to hang out, but that's it. I am friendly and have made more friends in the past 2 years at university than combined in my life, but I still am not invited to parties or anything like that.

I've always thought that crashing a party is a douche move, but maybe it's my only option since I have no idea how to get invited or go to one.

Does anyone else have ideas on how to get over this final hump? Should I invite more people out? I do sometimes but I get flakes every now on a while which sucks. I'm just at a loss for how to get invited to things/parties and being the ignored one of my circle of friends, despite being friendly and initiating he friendship in the first place.