so after months of being busy with other shit i'm finally back in dating and can now focus on racking up my lays. immediately i get greeted with two failure dates. these are dates that i had yesterday, first at 1pm, next at 6pm. to summarize, both dates did not lead to sex, all i got was little kisses on the lips

first date was an 18 year old chick that just finished high school. met for coffee, she was down to come to my place afterward. coffee was good, when we get into my place i do my standard escalation. move her to my bed, bring my laptop over, load up some music, and then 15 minutes later go for the make out. i basically did just that, she gives me a few kisses, then she starts resisting the make out. i'm thinking "fuck". so right there i knew this was probably not going to close. i backed off a bit, tried again later, didn't work. then tried to do other stuff by suggesting i "massage" her. i was trying different things to escalate until finally she's just like "i don't want to have sex today". so that was pretty much over. after that i just chilled on my bed and kept listening to music. plan was to just kind of sit there on my laptop until she got bored and excused herself to leave. she didn't though, she kept trying to like talk to me and shit about her classes and she wanted to tell me like stories and shit. i saw this and quickly spoke up. i basically made up some excuse that i had a lot of work that i should be doing right now and that i feel bad about procrastinating. kicked her out after that

second date was a 37 year old white lady with big tits and a nice booty. drove to her apartment. i thought the plan was wine and having sex, that's what it seemed like over text. so we get there, we drive to the liquor store, i buy us a bottle of wine. we make it to her place and she puts on netflix, netflix and chill lol how ironic. so we're watching some netflix, drinking wine on her sofa and eventually i get in close with her so we were cuddling. then 15 minutes into the film i went in for the make out, got a kiss but couldn't make out. so i backed off, waited a bit longer, tried again, still bullshit resistance. i was optimistic about this one though because i had already failed earlier in the day. i decided to wait some more, take my time with it. then i tried to do other things to escalate like suggesting a massage.

little side note: the massage is something i do if the girl won't let me escalate normally. what i want is for her to lay on her stomach so i can get on top and basically massage her back and booty, then start dry humping. i can't just say i want to do that though. and the girls won't lay on their stomach if i just ask them "hey can you lay on your stomach". cause then they will give me bullshit resistance again and won't do it. so i use the excuse: "hey i wanna give you a massage, can you lay on your stomach". they hear the word "massage" and now everything is all cool. and now they can allow themselves to lay on their stomach. weird way their brain works but basically now i can get to where i want to be: on top as they are laying down so i can dry hump

but anyways. so i did that and now i'm basically dry humping this girl after massaging her for a bit. i managed to get my pants off and pull out my cock at one point. i was trying to get her horny enough to want to fuck but it didn't work. eventually she wanted to get up and things just started going more downhill from there. so yeah i knew nothing was going to happen at that point so i decided to leave. i said i'm going to head out and i want my bottle of wine back (LOL). originally i planned to just let her keep it if we fucked, but she was being resistive as fuck and i would rather just take that shit back, she doesn't deserve it. she acted super normal temper about this. she poured herself one last glass in the kitchen (what a sneaky hoe lol..), put the cork back in the bottle, then gave it to me. there was only half of the bottle left, how she drank half a bottle of wine in like 45 minutes i have no idea. anyway, so after i got my wine i was ready to get the fuck out of there and never return. made sure i had all my stuff in my pocket then bounced

so yeah, 2 dates yesterday, both failed and no sex. just little kisses on the lips. i'm not that butthurt about it, it happens. now if this repeats itself for 3 more dates then i may start getting butthurt. i have another date today in an hour. she's down to come to my place afterward. i might close or i might fail again. this may be exactly the same as the other two dates: try to make out and then get resistance, resistance, resistance. i'll see what happens

UPDATE: back from 3rd date. Pulled but no sex. Same as last two dates. Still don’t feel that butthurt. It’s gonna happen. Just will keep lining up more dates and eventually one is going to fuck no questions asked. 4th date 3 days from now.