Hey seddit. This is my second post here, the first one I had to delete, since I wasn’t 100% honest. I’ll keep it as short as I can. I’m 16 ( the age of consent in my country is 15 ). Recently I got into cold approaching, fast forward 1 month, and I’m dating a 9/10 Russian girl (few months older). Initially, she was playing hard to get, but ended up in my apartment after the first date where she made out with me, nothing more. On the second date I was confronted with the question: “What are we”, which I tried to dodge by saying “let’s just have fun and see what happens”, which just pissed her off, so I tried “I guess we’re dating”, which was surprisingly enough to calm her down. Same happened on the third date. She went into my apartment after and we made out for the whole night, I managed to strip her and get physical, however she abruptly stopped and said that she is too young to have sex (seemed very confident in that statement). She said that she’s worried that I just want to use her etc. Previously she also mentioned that she has been bullied in the past, being repeatedly called a slut. Then she said she wants to wait 6 months, which after a few minutes turned into 2 and then 1. I was gone for a few days (she texted me every single day, always initiating contact, telling me that she misses me, loves me etc.), and we went out again, however she had to be home by 11, but she went as far as offer to come at 3 am to “watch a movie” when I said that I miss the night she slept over at my place. However she cancelled last minute, saying that she is sick, but she loves me and the usual. I don’t know if she’s just naive/immature or if she’s playing games with me, either way I’m sick of being blue balled by this chick, but I fear that I’m starting to like her too much. Tl:Dr : repeatedly blueballed, can’t figure out if it’s due to my age and or some different factor, need help to overcome this