Immediately I was hooked her bluntness and humor is something that I've been looking for a long time, amazing charisma and nonchalant while talking. This girl knew what she was looking for.ffort I should end this post right there buuuut... Im not sure im ready, Im coming to you all for some help.

​

First Girl

So a few days ago I met a girl on a dating app, wasn't anything serious but what really caught my attention with her was how blunt she was.

Paraphrase of her profile description

"If your profile is half your face or you're ugly don't try and match me, I have nothing against ugly people Id just rather spend my time with someone who is easy on the eyes..."

Immediately I was hooked her bluntness and humour is something that I've been looking for a long time, amazing charisma and nonchalant while talking. This girl knew what she was looking for.

We spoke for a couple days but the pressure of keeping her interested was too much for me and I eventually gave into the pressure, started acting like a dork and eventually tried to number close (Multiple times)... that didnt go well.

​

Second girl

I saw her IG page and thought how attractive she was, "you miss 100% of the shots you dont take", so I messaged her even though she had quite a few followers and a "Do not DM me" in her bio. I love challenges, I took the opportunity that she loves too cook to open in her DMs. I sent a picture of a meal I cooked. Must say it looked pretty good to me, with the message "your food looks okay but mine bangs".... Apparently not to her, she immediately insulted it stating "why does your food look like it went to war"

I must say I was loving it, the energy she was giving off was super playful and I responded with "you're supposed to say, that looks delicious" she laughed and sent a message saying how appetizing my meal looked. we've been talking for about a day, at the time of this post.

​

The problem

​I'm having is not confidence, i Just dont know how to keep the women in that playful state of mind!