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[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In the words of my child hood hero Johnny Bravo, “You look like the girl that can use two boyfriends”.
[–]kalz44 20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They all don’t have boyfriends.
[–]LimitedContributor 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You gotta take the risk sooner than later or you will end up in as that "friend"
Your already kind of setting yourself up for it.
[–]sob9 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm not sure what you mean here. If you mean that I will be friendzoned then yes that's why I've decided to give up on this girl. If you mean I will end up as "the virgin friend", I have been blessed with good looks, tall stature, natural athleticism and a decent albeit reserved and non-assertive personality. This keeps people thinking positively of me for the most part and I have yet to becoming visibly bitter.
[–]LimitedContributor 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh. You got it then.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just because a guy hugged her it doesn’t mean they’re in a relationship, and if they are, chances are he asked her out while you’re on reddit asking us why girls are already taken instead of approaching someone
Well if he already asked her out then I didn't have a chance anyway so
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My point is for you to not have a 1 girl mentality and go out and find another girl that’s out there and do what he did so you’re the one hugging the girl
[–]ThaBromar 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Either A) Be the so called “respectful gentleman” or B) Be the guy that boyfriends should be careful about when you are with their girls.
[–]sob9 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I wish I could be B but I don't know how.
[–]ThaBromar 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There are actually a lot of resources and guides. I would just YouTube a couple of things.
[–]sob9 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Obviously these are learned abilities but the lack of an ability to follow through is my worst enemy. I would say I lack motivation to seek the things which I want. To say I don't really want said things isn't the truth, but to say my willingness to take them is severely limited would be accurate.
[–]AndaDeSun 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Dude, stop imagining boyfriends for all of them...i used to be in your shoes. if you had communicated with her the very moment the thought came into your head, this wouldn't have happened. Pretend you never saw the hug and talk to her. make sure you hug her too before you leave after getting her snap or what ever. The guy you saw was probably meeting her for the very first time.
[–]sob9 -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
I've talked to her regularly which is what sets this apart in my mind. But I've never been able to ask. but I agree I need to move faster. I'm used to waiting months and I made it my goal to talk to her quickly this time. I still ended up waiting too long to ask her though which is why I'm giving up.
[–]MsTinaFey 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don't get why you're giving up now. Because you say a guy hug her? That's idiotic. People hug people. If you like her then go for it. There's nothing to lose.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. -Wayne Gretzky -Michael Scott
[–]sob9 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but if he hugged her then he's probably her bf or something. I am about 90% it was her because I couldn't see her well and also because I didn't want to stare.
[–]MsTinaFey 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't think this! I have tons of guy friends who I hug. When I see them, I hug them.
On the other hand when I see my boyfriend, we kiss. If anything to me a hug means they're platonic.
It sounds like you're just copping out to spare yourself potential rejection. Give yourself a chance.
[–]sob9 -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He hugged her, around the neck sort of like a leaning hug while they were walking. She didn't hug him. That's usually a sign of a relationship at least in my experience.
[–]MsTinaFey 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meh. I still don't see the harm in asking her out.
[–]aatpacalypse97 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its true. Every girl I come across and talk to already has some bastard boyfriend, but most guys I talk to are single somehow. I usually talk to girls I think are attractive and get their snapchats or other social media. And sure enough she'll have a boyfriend. Its ridiculous to think men and women are 50/50 in numbers.
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