Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm sure we've all had this situation, especially those gentleman who enjoy a good stylish piece of headwear. You go to a bar or club, and an energetic young lass decides that she will take that hat off of your head and place it on her own. Now there you are, stuck with hat hair and your cool accessory gone.

Is this:

a) A positive, because it's an IOI + opportunity to interact

b) A negative (unless you object vocally) because it shows that you are a doormat and anyone can just take what they want from you

c) Both

?