So guys I get this pretty often a lot of people think I’m a flirt and a player but I’m actually quite the contrary I’m still a Virgin at 24

I’m just trying to piece together the missing piece of my game ? I just can’t seem to close / seal the deal if you guys get what I mean?

I get told o so often that I come across as one of these guys that gets laid often and to me if anything this is holding me back cause of the expectation now as opposed to just letting it happen. I can’t seem to figure out where I’m going wrong or what I’m doing wrong I’m pretty good at opening strangers and holding good conversation I’m pretty self amused all the time and I got a few of my ways to loosen up if I’m feeling tense , I hold conversations well and people always tell me they feel extremely at ease around me purely because of how easy I’am to talk to but I just can’t seem to get th sexual tension or the man to woman frame maybe? I’m not sure , all and any advice would be greatly appreciated guys

Thanks in advance