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I thought I wasn’t the duff but after I was used as an in for two of my friends I think I might just be the duff. Shit hurts, I might just become a 4chan betabot what do?

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September 13, 2018

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Title	I thought I wasn’t the duff but after I was used as an in for two of my friends I think I might just be the duff. Shit hurts, I might just become a 4chan betabot what do?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	25
Date	September 13, 2018 11:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9fn62u/i_thought_i_wasnt_the_duff_but_after_i_was_used/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/i-thought-i-wasnt-the-duff-but-after-i-was-used-as.1453288 https://theredarchive.com/post/1453288

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My big deal is that I thought she was interested in me or something

This girl id been talking to had been ignoring some of my messages

I'm sorry, but in what universe do people ignore the ones they're interested in?

And in what universe would you want to be involved with someone who treats the ones they date that way?

No, the truth is that you already know she wasn't interested in you. That's why she was ignoring you.

When people want something, they look for ways to circumvent barriers and make things easier. They don't make it some fucking uphill battle.

but idek if she’s interested in my friends

Doesn't matter.

Think this through. The only reason it matters to you at all is because you're stubbornly holding onto some useless fantasy of this girl, one where you she cares for you and you somehow "win" her over.

Fuck that shit. You know as well as I do how hard it is being the man in this situation. Why in hell should you accept any paradigm where you are supposed to be breaking your back to get someone to like you and accept you, but they don't have to do a fucking thing?

Fuck that. This girl doesn't deserve all the importance you're currently giving her. And you need to have a sitdown with yourself and hash out why she should matter to you at all.

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