(28/m) can’t deal with how much of a loser I feel like. I haven’t approached until I was 26 and I feel like I missed out on all of this stuff. It’s hard for me to feel abundant.

I am seeing some girls. But I haven’t gamed or went after a girl till I was 26. And I just talked to a girl I have been talking to for months and last week I asked to be exclusive.

She’s been bringing up guys every time and about how she rejects them recently. Which is good. But I said “well you must of been seeing guys while we’ve been talking.” And she said “yeah”.

I understand because we were not exclusive. But it pains me to think that I have never tried for a relationship before. And some girls are in so much abundance getting guys way more attractive than me that I feel like just a big loser. I am so out of it and I feel like I missed all my youth. It pains me to hear about this stuff.

Any advice? My feelings are crushed.