Hey guys,

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I had a couple of dates over the last months some successful most of them went nowhere. I think what I am currently lacking of is the ability to create tension / establish body contact during the date. So please share advice / best practices on following problems:

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(1) Often you start on a date in a bar or restaurant so you are sitting in front of each other. How do you overcome the logistics problem to get close to her without looking weird? On one date for example, we were sitting in front of each other, and my brain was thinking fuck how do i get close to this chick now. God was on my side on this one and we were relocated to a table with a couch, because they were closing the part of the bar. From that point it went so smooth, 30min later we were making out on that couch like little teenagers, just because we were in constant body contact. What are your best practices for this logistics problem. Would be interested in techniques which work also in areas in which you are not familiar with (cause always going to a specific bar with such places is tough and to inflexible) - so getting close to the chick without looking weird?

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(2) What are your basic routines to create tension during a date. I am would say I am average looking not bad not extremly good, so just sitting their and talking general rubbish like, where are you from blablablaboring does not work for me. However, would say in general high value guy, so potential to play more mind games is definitely there. Any good routines, just to have like kind of a blue print?

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Thanks for your tips guys!