If you want to make 1 change that will make you instantly more attractive, do this:

Say everything boldly, clearly and confidently, even when you’re wrong.

Being wrong can mean several things.

It can mean factually wrong. For example, you’re not really knowledgeable about the topic you’re discussing, and you say something which is factually incorrect.

It can also mean you’re uncertain about having the conversation or making the statement in the first place. For example, any thought such as: “am I bothering this person,” “is this person annoyed with me,” “does this person what to talk to me,” “does this person value my opinion,” causes uncertainty in your mind, and thus uncertainty in your voice.

A male voice that is decisive and bold is more attractive than one which is uncertain, meek and timid. The words you’re actually saying aren’t what’s important. What’s important is the way you speak.

Attraction is not a logical decision, it’s a subconscious emotional response. Imagine a woman is sitting in a coffee shop and overhears two equally “good looking” guys having the same conversation and making the same jokes with the barista. The first guy has a timid, shy voice. He’s uncertain if she should be hitting on the barista or just ordering a damn latte. The second guy gives zero fucks. He hits on the barista loud and clear. He even pronounces the word “macchiato” wrong when he finally gets around to his order. But he says everything with complete confidence whether right or wrong.

Assuming everything else is equal, who is the overhearing women going to immediately be more receptive to should the guys come over and try to make a move? I hope you see that it would be the guy with the clear and confident voice. Because a confident voice says you’re comfortable with yourself, even when you’re wrong, and that’s attractive. The beauty of the confident voice is that it can begin to trigger attraction before you are even talking to the woman you’re interested in. This can happen in school, work, church, a coffee shop or anywhere that a woman overhears you talking to someone else.

You can start practicing a bold and confident voice right away with anybody. How do you say “good morning” to people when you arrive at work? Is it a bold, crisp “good morning” which makes them smile like it’s actually a good morning? Or do you say it softly in a mumbling, half-ass kind of way? Do you say nothing and just nod or smile at them?

Something as simple as this can be a great place to start. If you’re not used to it, the sound of your own bold, confident voice may actually sound strange to you. You may not be used to hearing yourself project in a self-assured manner. If this is the case, then it’s highly likely that attractive women passing through your life either (1) don’t hear you at all or (2) hear a meek, timid, uncertain voice, which instantly makes her less receptive to you from a relationship perspective.

So get out there today and give people some bold, crisp, direct, confident statements and questions and see how differently they react to you.