To any newbies being jaded works. To those who are a little more advanced I am sure you'll relate.
The less you care the more they want you that is true. My most recent ex still wants a fwb type situation living together and sharing a bed... also to split rent (now I aint saying she's a gold digger. However she is hot too so idk). This pretty much only came about because some tinder thot I saw once hit up my ex online to mock her and call dibs on me (psycho/10).
Seeing a couple different girls a week is not a problem. But I cant help but notice it wherever I go the flick of her hair, the sideways smirk while she tries to work out if her friends approve, biting her lip, the nervous energy, when she adjusts her bra or leans over a little more. Seeing her profile pic and all i see are tactical angles and strategically exposed skin.
Hitting the clubs is a breeze btw guys if your gf goes clubbing it isnt that she will cheat on you, more you better hope she doesnt meet a guy who knows what he is doing. Girls i talk to with boyfriends I just play it cool and act like i dont care (because i dont). Then it begins with justification to me but for her own benefit "I havent been happy with him for a long time, he is a dick..." then he simply exits the convo and ceases to be relavent. If I dont seal the deal that night she will come to her senses, but in your absence you cease to exist to her. Charming.
Nothing feels better than having a "slut" come onto you, she is just a girl that plays her own version of the game. It may be easier for a girl to get laid but that doesnt mean she has more sex she is just more selective. When you start talking to her if you know what you're doing she will see you for what you are. She may be a heartbreaker and a tease but I promise she will be an awesome lay and probably hot as shit too. It is refreshing to talk to a girl and find yourself on the otherside of the game. Having a solid 9/10 stare at you like a cat with a mouse is a visceral fucking thrill. Just dont fuck it up.
It's all just tainted love isn't it.
there doesn't seem to be anything here