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Many of my past daygame students often ask "should you persist when a girl says 'no' the first time?"

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Luckily this is easy to answer.

Girls will often throw out a *soft rejection* during your daygame approach to see whether you persist when a girl says 'no'. Effectively she is looking to test whether you truly believe in yourself and what you're doing as you flirt with her.

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They're not stupid. They've been hit on plenty of times by drunk guys in nightclubs. This is their natural defence mechanism to weed out the guys who really have no inner-confidence in themselves.

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So... Should you persist when a girl says no?

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The most important aspect you can develop is calibration during your daygame. When it's time to take a girl's number, you should know whether to persist when a girl say no... Or if she's truly not interested.

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When first determining should you persist when a girl says no, you must decide whether the girl's "no" is a *real no* or a *try one more time no*

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Some signs she's actually interested in you and just testing are:

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- She's stopped for you and your conversation. She hasn't actually shown signs of wanting to leave or get out of this abnormal situation of flirting with a random guy in the street during the day

- She hasn't actually mentioned any objection like boyfriends, leaving town soon etc until the very end when you've asked for her number

- The girl has given you strong positive body-language signs throughout the daygame approach

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So, should you persist when a girl says no?

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If you pick-up on any/all of these above signs during your daygame conversation, there's a strong likelihood that the girl is just testing you and you should persist even though she has originally said 'no'

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Now, what are her seriously REAL 'NO' signs:

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- She doesn't actually stop for your approach. Maybe she keeps walking slightly and tells you to 'walk with her'...

- Shy or extra polite girls aren't confident enough to simply walk away and reject you... So they give off sub-communications with their body language that lets you know that she isn't interested. Facing away from you, leaning away, taking little steps to your side, etc.

- Weak eye contact

- General fidgeting... Looking at her phone, adjusting her headphones, playing with her rings/fingers...

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Should you persist when a girl says 'no' in these example situations?

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Probably not... They're pretty clear signs that a girl's "no" is a real "no".

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This 6th sense of knowing and understanding whether you should persist when a girl says 'no' or not, will come with experience and calibration the more you practice daygame and cold-approaching girls.

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