As a guy who isn't ripped and usually eats terribly I honestly am pretty happy with my success in my dating life. But the biggest thing for me at the bar is generating interest before they ever talk to me. I think that is mostly due to the fact of when I go to the bar, I don't just sit there. Boredom sets in if I sit and try to start a conversation with the one girl that sat beside me. Checking out every girl with my friends at the bar also gets old fast. So I always try to go somewhere with activities like pool ping pong etc. I generally have an amazing time. Smiling even dancing to the beat if I am feeling really good that day. Generating a great atmosphere around you attracts people. What usually happens is some girls usually come up and start watching us. My buddy and I usually will look at them but still continue as we want. Finally, we usually get asked if they can join, bam two dates for us.

Then a bunch of guys come over because the girls came over. The girls usually get annoyed at that and will leave when we do.

In conclusion, I firmly believe that being an inviting person is very important.

I hope this helps someone.