I have no idea if this is the right place, but I guess I wanted to vent a bit. Let me preface this by saying I'm 27 and fairly happy in most aspects of my life. I have a good job, close friends and family, a few serious hobbies, and live an active lifestyle. That being said, I'm finding myself very unfilled in my dating life.
For the past year I've been single and dating. For the first 6 months or so, I was all about the seduction lifestyle. Would meet girls at bars, on the apps, and through my hobbies. Had fun, got laid, whatever. I keep everything no-strings and would generally only see girls 3-4 times before ending things.
Eventually this started to get boring and I would start dating girls for a bit longer and doing more 'couple-y' types of dates. I met several girls that were very interested in relationship who I was also fairly into, but then something fairly minor would happen, I'd lose interest, and end things.
Even more recently I've met 2 girls who I was very interested in. The first one eventually asked me where I saw things going, I gave a vague answer and then slowly faded her out. The second girl I have now been seeing fairly seriously for about 2-3 months. She seems like the exact type of girl I'm looking for, and we've been getting a long great. But.... She happens to be out of town, and I'm getting this urge to end things. I don't even know why, but i just find that I have no interest in talking to her or hearing from her.
I guess I'm not even sure if I have a question. I'm just feeling frustrated because the rest of my life seems pretty good, but I'm finding myself unhappy regardless of what I do dating-wise. Not dating at all, being in a relationship, and just trying to get laid all sound incredibly unappealing.
Sorry for the rant.
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