Got her number in 60 seconds (and a date) INFIELD VIDEO

hard-to-swallow · 2018-11-01T17:00:01+00:00

Good video, but probably not for the reasons you originally posted.

Let this be proof that you can do many, many things wrong and still land the girl. Now imagine how much more success you would have, and with hotter women, if you did not:

Approach from a weak frame, immediately showering her with complements and giving away all your power
Ask for things from her (extracting value) instead of leading (being masculine)
Speak with poor seeking-rapport tonality, sub-communicating lack of confidence
Rush the entire interaction and make it much more likely that she will flake when you contact her
Do dinner for the first date (yes, even in Asia)

Now for the positives:

You had the balls to cold approach
You're a foreigner
She almost certainly doesn't get cold-approached often, which makes you stand out

For anyone reading this, it should be hugely encouraging to witness a margin of error that we are all allowed in interactions before they are lost forever. Keep learning and keep moving forward.

Joan_Zeroz · 2018-11-01T04:48:41+00:00

This was 2 years ago recorded

Joan_Zeroz · 2018-11-02T03:12:00+00:00

Hard-to-swallow, I can see you are a newbie, so my pleasure to help you.

Your feedback is great if you use indirect method, such as the mystery method, nevertheless I use direct method on my way, and as you can see it is simple, effective and no need to "dance like a monkey".

About the things you point out:
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"Approach from a weak frame, immediately showering her with complements and giving away all your power"
This is the most common thing among newbies, they are still thinking in "low and high value" so they are always worried about it, this is very common in those that use indirect method, by the way, the experience will tell you that the best way to approach is the way I did it, you didn't notice I approached from behind, if you try to approach in a more aggressive way you will just scare her.

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"Ask for things from her (extracting value) instead of leading (being masculine)"
Another misleading belief, asking for something is ok, and I won't waste my time talking forever if she cannot understand me, the experience will tell you more about this.

" Speak with poor seeking-rapport tonality, sub-communicating lack of confidence"
Guys, please stop this, you didn't even see me in the camera and you try to analyze my voice language thing? absurd lol but it is ok bro, I used to do this all the time, to provide "expert feedback" when I didn't have any experience at all.

" Rush the entire interaction and make it much more likely that she will flake when you contact her"
I have noticed you have this macho way to handle interactions, you need to be more social inteligent bro, she was clearly in a rush, I didn't have much time, even during the conversation she said she had to go (and she did, her friends were waiting near from there), learn to be more socially inteligent.

" Do dinner for the first date (yes, even in Asia)"
Somehow I think this is quite racist, besides that as I said before, you need to stop following just your agenda and be more aware about everything is happening around you, as I said before, she was in a rush and her friends were near there, doing this just shows the little care you have about others.

" You had the balls to cold approach"
This is something newbies overstimate a lot, like you, and this is normal, just a conversation, that is all, stop thinking this is more than it is.

" You're a foreigner"
Being a foreigner is positive....uhm somehow this is quite racist.

" She almost certainly doesn't get cold-approached often, which makes you stand out"
You did this statement based on nothing, just as you did with everything else.

Thank you for the feedback, it was awesome, it will help to other newbies that have the same sticking points as you have, my guess is that you a re hardcore fan of one dating company but I will avoid the name, greetings.

Zeroz

Joan_Zeroz · 2018-11-02T04:55:02+00:00

Hard-to-swallow:

"And I can see you get butt-hurt fairly easily. Rather than constructively discussing my points you're choosing ad-hominem nonsense as your response. That's unfortunate, but I'll still address your points below."

Not at all, I am happy that I used your replied as a way to show others that is easy to get adviced from wrong people, in this case a newbie like you.

"I'm not partial to direct or indirect and use both regularly, and my comments apply regardless of the "method"."

I dunno, you clearly missed out so many things in your "feedback" but it is ok you will get more savy and wise.

"It's pretty clear your usage of "newbie" stems from insecurity and a fragile ego, but let's just get this one out of the way: I know much more about your game than you do mine, as you posted a video of it. You know shit about mine, but since we're measuring dicks, suffice it to say I'd make yours look like an ingrown hair."

You really said nothing here, thank you for showing that you are the one offended.

"Of course it is. So you posted here not seeking any real commentary, just praise for your incredible mastery of game, am I right? All hail the master!

And yes, you're right, "low and high value" are definitely myths! So 1990s!"

Once again you said nothing, great, continue with your feedback.

"Who is "guys" ? This post has -1 upvotes, no commenters except me and there's literally nobody here but you and I talking to each other right now. Do you think you're on a podium teaching seduction to an imaginary audience? Have you been wet-dreaming of this moment your entire life?"

Interesting, once again you said nothing, not surprise but I do understand your position, you will improve.

"No idea what you're on about."

She was clearly in a hurry, she even said she had to go with some friends, but you said that I shouldn't be in a rush and even try to get dinner with her, that is very newbie advice, I truely advice you to approach more.

"You're a foreigner in Asia and the fact that I pointed this out as a positive (they like foreigners) is racist? I hope you realize how fucking stupid you sound, but my guess is you probably won't."

Have you been to asia? You are talking as if any foreigner is welcome, there are huge differences, but I won't get in detail, you cannot even understand she was in a hurry lol and yeah you are racist.

"Well, I tried, but some people are just too closed-minded to accept any form of feedback.

I hope you know I was literally the only person who upvoted your post (never mind responded). I'm now retracting that upvote since this has turned into a shit-show display of your insecurities as a person.

Best of luck, mate"

It is ok, you will have plenty of time to improve yourself and your mindset, you will be fine. The funny thing about this is that I got a date and you are here to give me some advice that as you will noticed, it is useless, get a dinner with a girl that is in a hurry and her friends are waiting next to us lol brilliant!

Title	Got her number in 60 seconds (and a date) INFIELD VIDEO
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Date	November 1, 2018 3:47 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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