31(M) first girlfriend after 12 years, need help with catholic girl

FokinTechSupport · 2018-11-29T09:17:02+00:00

Speaking from experience , dating an extremely religious girl isnt going to end well unless you're extremely religious as well.

CeliaFoxx · 2018-11-29T07:05:19+00:00

She seems like she's still interested. You may need to already have a heart to heart with her and expectations on where this is going. No one likes being in a long term relationship with no direction or communication.

TheXXL · 2018-11-29T14:20:41+00:00

A few points I think after reading this:

You are needy after such a long time not having any sexual activity.
It doesn´ t seem like you are religious, but as you say she is ultra religious.
You try to be patient with her, probably because you genuinely like her, but it gets to you and I am sure you are not at all happy.
I think chances are that she will never have sex with you before you marry her

Those are just a few thoughts to this, but in the end you are coming here to get some advice on how to get sex. The thing is, you are having a scarcity mindset. It is like she´ s your only hope of getting any action ever, so you try to make this bad relationship work, but chances are probably very slim.

But lets get to the real point here: You are a grown up man, and it´s ridiculous to a grown up man, deliberately giving in to such a situation where he is constantly unfulfilled, while there are literally billions of other women on this planet to pick. I have learned a lot of things throughout my life, and one thing was that it sometimes doesn´t fit. How many women I had to just give up because there were too many unfitting circumstances. It´s like meeting a girl in a night club, hitting it off like crazy, and when you think this could not get better, already imagining fucking her later, you find out she is not from your country, and has to leave soon for her another country to never come back, so there is no time anymore to do anything.

This is called bad logistics. It doesn´ t matter how much you want it, or how much she wants it, often times the logistics are just fucked up, and you have to be a grown up about it to let it go. I cannot remember how often I was in such a situation, so I learned to let go and concentrate on girls with better logistics.

This is what I advise you to do, and maybe add one priority to your list: Never get into a romantic relationship before you had the opportunity to try the goods. We don´ t live in the last century anymore where it was normal to get married and then find out that you are not sexually compatible at all, but you had to stay together because reasons... In the modern age this is just stupid and brings more pain than pleasure.

2018-11-29T13:10:18+00:00

Holy Ghost her. Regardless of faith, if she liked you that way she would have devoured your dong weeks ago.

Title	31(M) first girlfriend after 12 years, need help with catholic girl
Author	thescrewupguy
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	November 29, 2018 6:57 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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