If I'm picking out a plate, should i just opt for a girl who i know is willing or can be made to be willing to do pretty much whatever I want from her sexually.... or should i opt for a woman who is "good" at the act of sex?

When it comes to blowjobs, their level of skill is obviously very varied... but with sex... especially in doggy-style... so long as she's willing to do what you tell her... I'm not really seeing where her "sexual ability" comes into it.

If she's willing she will move her hips, can wear lingerie, do anal, agree to a threesome, role-play with you, let you cum on her face, try and deep-throat etc. the sex will be way better... but that has nothing to do with her ability, just her willingness

Woman I was fucking used to brag to me about how good she was during the sex... and in my head I'm like... bitch you only did what i told you to do, how does that make you good at sex?

So what do you guys think? What denotes "good" sexual ability for a woman? And how important is it? Should we just opt for "willingness" instead?