And you have gone through 500 dates and found that she's finally it. You're inevitably blinded by love and your logical mind goes cloudy no matter how hard you try. Let's say I really want to have kids with her and raise a stable family and such. She may leave you if you don't propose to her soon due to inevitable market forces and biological imperatives. What are the ideal ways to test her?
Pre-nups indicate a lack of trust and only protect assets that you've had before you married, if even that since it's up to the court to decide to throw it out or not. It also creates plans for when the marriage breaks down, which isn't a pleasant tone since that's never supposed to happen in the first place.
We all clearly know a marriage breaks down when the female gets bored and cheats on the man. I've thought about hiring an expert alpha fuck to try and seduce her to test her, as well as giving a rich man a free fuck if he succeeds in seducing her. And another man who is similar to me. All to just make sure she wants me, and not some better guy or other guy like me.
The problem is that she is likely to enjoy me a little earlier than marriage a lot more than 5 years down the road, so she's unlikely to cheat during the former and gets more and more likely as time goes towards the latter. If I wish to raise a stable family with her, what is the best way to test her loyalty before entering this bullshit contract? I'm nowhere near marriage age, but it's good to think about these things early. Should I entirely give up the hope of raising a family out of an unwillingness to gamble half my net worth? How would an LTR with a unicorn work out without marriage in sight? She wouldn't (And doesn't have to) put up with simply cohabitation. Thanks if you guys can provide some guidance.
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