I'm not funny and I don't have a sense of humor.

thrownoverboardmatey · 2018-12-05T14:09:44+00:00

You can learn humor. It's a social construct mate

cassydd · 2018-12-05T10:56:02+00:00

I'd say women only value a sense of humor to the extent that it makes a guy interesting, so if you can find a way to be interesting to women it won't matter if you're funny or not.

If you can't tell when other people are attempting to be funny I guess learn to read social cues so you know when someone else thinks they said something humorous so you can at least react. Or just straight up say "sorry, I don't have much of sense of humor."

A lot of this stuff is just going to come with exposure and practice.

2018-12-05T15:49:47+00:00

Smile more when you meet people and the humor will naturally flow. Go watch any rsdtyler video and youll see how he jut sorta laughs at everything even though hea not funny and people think hes funny because of it.

canarywocoalmine · 2018-12-06T02:09:23+00:00

So keep in mind first of all, funny and sense of humor generally are 2 different things. Funny means you make her laugh. Sense of humor has more to do with dealing with life's absurdities, being able to roll with it, take defeat and keep going, fall down and laugh at yourself.

Humor can also be learned unless you have a disorder like aspergers. And a style of humor can be developed. I'm really sarcastic and some women love that. Some don't. I also can do really dry humor, again, some like, some don't.

I'd recommend getting some books on comedy, watch comedians, go to standup acts, check out improv classes. Find some friends that are funny.

Another tip, biologically speaking, women probably evolved to like humor as it is indicative of intelligence and that someone is emotionally well developed. Find ways to show those things without cracking jokes and you'll find some women respond to the brooding intellectual.

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-12-05T15:45:42+00:00

watch a shit ton of stand up comedy. especially black stand up comedians. not being racist, but they're the funniest. fact.

Title	I'm not funny and I don't have a sense of humor.
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Date	December 5, 2018 7:07 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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