Tonight I have a formal event that's been planned weeks in advance and of course, I end up getting sick. While I don't intend to abandon my date and not go I'm sure my cough is going to throw off my night as its making my body weak. Any advice on how to spin this? In circumstances like this is it best to just be upfront and let them know one is ill or should I not mention it and just go about just being hard to get when the situation is escalated to sex?