Should you tell woman about your fears and problems?

ThaBromar · 2018-12-14T20:42:39+00:00

No. It’s usually a turn off when you treat them like they are your therapist.

J_A_B_88 · 2018-12-14T21:01:34+00:00

Depends on your relationship with them. Probably shouldn't be pouring out the emotions like that to someone you just met. If it's your gf and she asks she'll appreciate the vulnerability you display.

2018-12-14T20:11:48+00:00

Imo no. Girls have their own issues and find it extremely disgusting when you mention your problems. It kills any attraction they had for you and you'll just be ghosted.

2018-12-15T07:54:11+00:00

If you wanna have casual sex or a one night stand with this women, never share your fears and problems unless you're in bed with her and you can't get hard, then maybe it's an ok time to explain your performance anxiety or whatever. Casual sex is really just about lust, no other emotion should be shown, and no problems should be shared really. It's a shallow experience and should be kept as such. If you share your emotions and fears and problems with a one night stand it will ruin the mood and she may not want you back for another round.

If you want her to be your platonic female friend or a girlfriend, then yes share your fears and problems because it increases intimacy and connection and that's what relationships are about, but do so with an awareness of how she is receiving your message and ensure you don't overwhelm her either.

Title	Should you tell woman about your fears and problems?
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Date	December 14, 2018 8:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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