Hey seddit. I have known 'game' for quite some years now and it has helped me tremendously with some of my 'social circle game' as i already knew the girls from the start. My main way of seducing has always been focused on showing as little attraction as possible, in order to keep her wondering, and after a while, start chasing. However this is very long term, and i usually means i have to be in contact with the girl for many weeks, usually until a party comes along. Where i will also either ignore my 'target' or just throw banter all night. I will make no moves until its really late and we have to find a place to sleep. Now this is usually private parties, and the hosts of these kindof parties usually let the guests sleep there. So by the time we have to sleep, i will start a conversation, so that me and the girl im going for most likely will find a place to sleep together, and somehow, bam. I make a move and its nicely reciprocated. The reason I do this is because theres almost always guys who are hitting on my targets, and it makes me cringe cause It is so obvious. Therefore i feel like i will show no interest, cause only then will i stand out as the one who does not give her attention, and therefore have the most 'value'. However, im starting to see this as just being passive. Is there any method to hit on a girl who is already being hit on my a ton of girls without being just another thirsty dude?

TL;DR: I dont hit at the girls i want to seduce at parties cause it makes me feel needy, as they already have dudes hitting on them. How the hell do i show interest without seeming needy when theres already a ton other dudes hitting on my target?