Hey. I met this girl at a party around june and she asked for my instagram. Few days later I asked her out and she said no. Ever since then we’ve been texting a bit every now and then. I invited her to two more parties and we only talked. I feel like I missed a big opportunity and could have gone for the kiss but I didn’t because I chickened up :/ I then asked her out for a second time and she hasn’t responded yet in 2 days (which is quite common of her) but still not a good signal. I think I pretty much friendzoned myself. When she texts me back I’m thinking of sending her a voice note telling her that I find her very interesting and a good person, and that I would have liked if something happened between us, but that it’s okay if she doesn’t want to. And that if she ever changes her mind to hit me up. Is it too much/ needy? Reading it feels long but a voice note would be 15 seconds max.

I’d appreciate some advice!

(Obligatory sorry for bad english, I’m from Argentina).