All I see is Race and I can't unsee it.

2019-01-03T03:29:59+00:00

Hey man, fellow Asian chiming in here (Chinese-American).

I really feel you, and I'm not gonna bullshit you by saying it's just your mindset that's the problem. Asian guys have it harder than other races, but it's definitely not insurmountable, and I'm not sure it's harder for Asians than it is for black guys or short guys. I think women's perceptions about Asian men are changing a lot as Asian people become more visible and there's also more and more fetishists these days thanks to K-pop. I live in Cleveland, and I've seen quite a number of Asian boyfriend / White girlfriend couples.

You might consider moving to a new city if you feel like the vibe is not good for you in your current city. I was out of the country for a while (mostly in Eastern Europe), and hooked up with about 20 girls over a two-and-a-half year period (almost all of them were white, which I'm mentioning not to brag, but to point out that you can date white girls as an Asian guy).

That said there are American girls who are open to Asian guys. I've been back in the US for about half a year now and I've gotten attention (and more) from white girls (and girls of other races, haha). You know what I'm going to say: it's gonna be harder for you, so you gotta work the numbers game harder and try to tighten up your game.

One last thing: try not to prejudge girls on whether they're gonna like you or not, and try not to stereotype. I've had success with some of the staciest girls who I would have assumed wouldn't have been into Asian guys.

signed a typical nerdy Asian guy :)

Mojorisin5150 · 2019-01-02T22:52:05+00:00

Are you saying you’re white and this happens to you on the dance floor?

A_solo_tripper · 2019-01-03T01:35:00+00:00

Check out squatting cassinova's youtube channel. He is Asian and you might be able to relate. I don't know oo much about him other than that. I'm a big believer in discovering the truth for yourself. But, I suggest him because you might find what he says helpful.

And do field reports.

WB2E · 2019-01-03T02:04:41+00:00

If it's within reason, perhaps move back to the other city. Sounds like you were living the life you wanted there.

KindnessWins · 2019-01-03T04:39:18+00:00

Leon LAUGH!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh. Tell the guy dude you're terrrrrible. You're like the Darth vader of cockblockers hahaha.
Turn every negative into a super fun tease from me or any of the guys in this group. Say Noooooooo while laughing.

Say things like guys hes right I'm the worst. I'm a total troublemaker. Also find cool positive guys in your area in this group that you can meet up with

Title	All I see is Race and I can't unsee it.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	January 2, 2019 10:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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