I’m a very needy person and always try my best to please anyone. I’ve been talking to my ex recently and even tho she is giving me one word responses and saying stuff like I’ll think about us getting back together after me asking multiple times I know I should just stop but I still blow her phone and continue to get one word responses etc. I recently helped her out with her rent so I figured that would get me on her good side but nope I’m Still In the same situation I’ve Been for the past year after we broke up. I do this to basically every girl I meet I become way to needy basically blow up there phone I know if they don’t reply I should leave it at that but I find it really hard to stop texting after that etc idk what to do but it’s ruining my dating life for sure.

I stay busy I work 10 hours a day 5 days a week and find time for the gym after work each day but still always am focusing on girls too much :( . I’m on depression/anxiety medicine and I start thinking I’m going to lose her or any girl for that matter so then I start thinking too much and then blow them up doing what I can to make it right.

Do I even have a chance with my ex after all this time and the begging and non sense I’ve done? I really do love her and know I can be better but idk how she will give me another chance if I don’t talk to her about it. She told me she would give me a second chance but she isn’t ready rn and it made me mad because it’s been over a year since we broke up. What can I do to stop acting so needy towards my ex and get her back or just in general with girls I do this to all the ones I’m into :(. I stopped talking to her for a week and today she sent me a meme not a message but she reached out over text with a meme and we never have done stuff like that? I’ve tried texting her but she’s still cold and distant