I have been on this sub for awhile and saved a fair amount of posts to up my game. I am reaching out because I find it hard to execute and make conversation in certain circumstances.

There is this cute girl that works at this local burger spot in my town that I have interest in. I can tell she has some interest in me, because she remembers my name, she knows that I enjoy siracha, so she always puts it in the bag, even when I didn't ask for it, even though she is supposed to charge me for it.

Anyway, today I went in we had some good banter, and I took a seat. I waited for a chance where she was alone enough to open up dialogue again. I waited. I waited. I waited. But she wasn't away from her co-workers, and I never took the shot. I could tell she was waiting, even noticing that I was looking for the opportunity.

I missed another chance. I sit back now, and just am frustrated, not only with myself, but the fact that I am waiting for a point that I feel is appropriate. has/does anyone else struggle with this? if you have, how did you overcome it?

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thanks!