Background: 28 Black male 5'11", good degree/career, cultured. Pretty good at talking to people ie I can absolutely be the life of the party when a wave of lethargy isn't making me an antisocial cunt.

So I have only dated/hooked up within my own race. Jamaicans, Haitians, Guyanese and especially pure Africans (Wolfofwallstreetfistbite.gif). I find women of all colors attractive but as Patrice put it, I know how to catch what I know and I also find the black female form to be the most attractive. I want to branch out especially into white women.

Last night this really hit me. I was at a bar on Bui vien in Saigon and there was this...fucking gorgeous blonde with a knockout body and I had no balls or idea what to do. Fast forward to later in the night I meet two beautiful girls from Madagascar and it's a walk in the park.

Maybe I have some kind of mental block. My friends are the kind of black people who always have to other themselves as in "black people don't do that" and that kind of mindset get reinforced to me daily in this age of black lives matter where even though I don't see it, I'm told that I'm hated because of my skin color. I also feel the pressure to act in a way that's more mainstream black because, dark as I am, I'm the kind of guy who goes to indie concerts and watches Jewish comics instead of only doing "black" things. I can't break through this wall. Is there something I can do to help me get more comfortable hitting on white women or even Asian women who are similar.