I've realized some girls try to give you an in, but it always catches me off guard and i ignore it. For example I was talking about a dance thing with one girl and she said "oh yeah my friend sent me a video about that, I should send it to you" when I didnt have her number. She was giving me a reason to ask for her number. I just ignored it pretty much. Tonight some girl came up to me and said she heard i was going to an event and I was like yeah I just gotta check if the bus goes nearby. She said if not she could give me a ride. These little things always catch me off guard and it makes me look disinterested for not taking them up when really i am interested.