I don't get interested in a girl suddenly, it takes time for me to get interested and want to have a relationship with her, so usually the girls I love are my friends. I first become friends, then if she is really my type I get interested, but everytime, every single time, I couldn't carry it further than friendship. When I wanted them as my girlfriend, I lost them both as a normal friend and girlfriend. I mean, am I supposed to flirt way before I really know her? I don't really want to have a relationship with people I don't know, I think you can't really know if you are interested before being friends. Am I thinking wrong? Or can I carry things further than friendship? I have never had a girlfriend and I feel very desperate. I came here. I am working on game currently but no hope. Thank you.