Here’s my situation: I’m quite the socialite and always very easily meet new people, do tons of things with others, go out plenty, etc. When it comes to women I do quite okay for myself, for the past months I’ve hooked up with someone every other week or so.

BUT the people I hook up with usually aren’t complete strangers. They’re usually people I get to meet theough others, have maybe been out in the same group once or twice with or people who have had time to stalk me on Instagram to see what I’m really all about / message me on Facebook to exchange numbers and text for a bit, etc.

Now a lot of people tell me I’m doing just fine and if anything, that means that I really do come across well to women as that usually means they really wanted to hook up with me as a person and not just cause I happened to be there at the right place & time.

But I dunno, I’m not sure if I actually come across well enough that I’d be able to pull from the get-go, which kind of irritates me.

What are your thoughts? Should I be “concerned” about this or would you agree with what others have told me that it doesn’t really matter that much if you’ve met the person once, or three times, or through others, or if they’re complete strangers and that everyone just has a different way of getting with others. - Maybe also I’m simply not direct enough on the first enounter and theoretically they would be open to hooking up but I hold back a bit until we’ve met more than once...