Going out to bars or staying in?

sociosexualstatus · 2015-02-14T07:16:21+00:00

It's funny that you post this here because I was actually just wondering the same exact thing right now. How can I keep my social skills in tact if I'm too busy trying to get shredded to go out and drink loads of alcohol at parties and shit. Next I will start partying, but this weekend was devoted purely to the shredmaster.

SpinPlates · 2015-02-14T08:49:15+00:00

Go out with them. Take some Phenibut.

a_nus · 2015-02-14T07:15:52+00:00

Also it feels like me and my friend's relationship is kinda going side since I barely hang out with them anymore on the weekend

If you only see them when you go out drinking, you don't have a solid friendship going on with them yet. You got any interests outside partying in common with them? Since you're presumably into fitness, maybe you can hit the gym together.

I was thinking of going there and taking some benzos

Haha. I've done this before, for similar reasons (making weight for a tournament.) I had a pretty good time, but your mileage may vary. Some people just black out on benzos and other fall asleep.

RapistHere · 2015-02-14T04:01:21+00:00

Go out. Doesn't have to always be bar/club, if you want to hang out and have time for it, do it. Push yourself, unless you want time to yourself.

oldredder · 2015-02-15T07:12:18+00:00

benzos: BAD idea. Smoke weed instead if you must but you should be able to game / socialize sober. I do get it: from age 19 to about 32 I was sober... rarely. Got the most pussy ever because of being fucked and clearly not caring about society's rules yet also provably smart which was good enough to make me a bad boy that wasn't a loser. So I get I'm being a little hypocritical here.

I think you can hang out non-drinking while others are drinking.

Personally I'm staying in. Of all the damn things I lost my ID which means I need it replaced before I get stuck in -30 C and turned away at bars because I look too young (even though I'm twice the age of some people in there; I don't look it).

redpillsmurf · 2015-02-16T08:11:06+00:00

http://revolutionarylifestyledesign.com/how-nightclubs-work-and-why-theyre-bad-places-to-pick-up-women/

I found this also applies to bars as well.

Title	Going out to bars or staying in?
Author	locomotronn
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Comments	18
Date	February 14, 2015 3:56 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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